So its midnight and she just slipped into his “favorites”. She knows that once he sees her, he will devour her. Putting on his “favorites” was about the most thought that she had given for tonight because she’s been so busy. Like she imagined, he picks her up and passionately leads into what will be one of the most invigorating sexual experiences of her life. Just as she finishes pleasing him, he lays her on her back so that he can return the favor. After kissing her from head to navel, he pulls her panties down and throws them on the floor. He takes her knees, spreads them apart and she closes her eyes. Being the gifted lover that he is, he goes directly to the spot that will make her lose control. She feels the warmth of his breathe first and the moisture of his mouth next, right before she hears a small voice say “Mommy.”
It’s their 2-year-old daughter and she will not be ignored! Wow… Now she won’t be getting any action tonight, lucky her huh? Does this sound familiar? So what went wrong?
Bad planning is the reason for this situation. Having a fulfilling sex life can be very difficult with the interruptions of small children. There are a few things that you can do to have less moments like this.
- Know what you want. Are you two craving a quickie or do you want the whole 9 yards of lovemaking? Let’s face it- it takes a lot more time to go through the motions of four play than it does to get right to it & down to business. Women know your body. You may require a lubricant to act fast. Another option may be that only one of you will be the receiver of stimulation tonight. (Don’t forget that it’s important to return the favor!) Whatever you decide, it requires seizing the opportunity and executing the plan with no deviation. Ha! Sounds like mission impossible right?!
- Timing is everything. Knowing what activities need to be done before dinner, when dinner will be served, and what is bed and bath time are for the children, are all important. For your night to flow you must stick to the plan and not waste a moment. Keep heading in the right direction.
- Meal planning. Okay you may not think that this is important but it is. The heavier the meal the longer it will take to digest and the sleepier you both will be. There’s nothing like talking dirty to each other all night about what you are going to do to each other just to fall asleep on a movie. Um you probably fell asleep because you were too full. You fantasize about acrobatics in the bed but after all that eating will barely be able to move. Now that’s impressive! Cut it out!
- Be ready. Don’t wait until the last minute and waste another hour jumping into the shower and bath tub. You knew that you wanted to get some action tonight and that you would need to be clean and smelling good. Handle your business early so that you can handle this business later. Let me be clear, I’m not saying don’t freshen up right before show time. Fellas please spend a little time making sure your equipment is ready to be played with and not all sweaty and offensive. Ladies it’s a good idea to keep feminine wipes on hand and if needed vaginal spray. Both of you need to make sure you brush your teeth because smelling and tasting dinner is a quick way for you to end it before it starts.
- Pick one. Don’t think that you have all night to play cards, watch a movie, look online, talk for hours and make love. Pick one. Tonight is just for getting down. Save the other buddy activities for another time because trust me you will be frustrated when your weekly highlights are only that you played board games. How sexy right? Wrong.
I know this will help you and when it does let me know.
Looking out for you,
Lady K
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